The resilient child

 Carol Dweck exposed: 

"Praising intelligence or talent creates a fixed mindset, makes kids worried about taking on hard tasks, even if they learn from them, and sabotages resilience. What's the alternative? Praising that process, effort, strategies, persistence - those growth mindset characteristics creates the hardy and resilient child" 

My Aloncito again, has showed me since he was a newborn how resilient a baby can be and develop in every task. Look at these shots, for example, in the task of having a baby bath... 

An example of resilience in this simple act for his wellbeing, there are things that can be threatened at first, but in the meantime the child can manage, govern, even like that thing, like a baby bath. 💛

Same with the others most crucial aspects of parenting in the child's experience, overcoming its "first time" by the hand of a tender parent, he/she doesn't you take his place because is as capable as you, but need confidence in their attempts, your support in the process, courage in their efforts and above all, your unconditional love. 

NBC News. September 24th, 2012. True Grit, Can You Teach Children Character?. [Video]. Nbcnews. https://www.nbcnews.com/video/true-grit-can-you-teach-children-character-44432451969